This article relates to me because I am a teen. Also I think I have a good relationship with my parents to where if I was in trouble, I could defiantly go to them. Last semester in my Intro to Publication class, we talked about online safety. This topic connects to that because if kids and teens can talk to their parents, then they are likely to make better decisions. As a teen, I believe that communication between kids/teens and parents is important, especially today.
I think this article is completely true. The mistakes are things that I have seen parents do, even mine. Listening to what your kids have to say can help prevent arguments. Most teens are willing to talk at first but if they get the wrong response from their parents, then they will not try to talk to them again. Communication can fix problems everywhere, not even just in homes. I would be willing to show this to my parents, so that they could know how to act or talk to us. It amazes me that there are parents like this out there already.
The authors point of view is that communication between teens/kids and their parents is key. She emphasizes this by using quotes from parents that have the same view point as her. Two of these that stuck out to me were from Antony Tseng, a single dad, that said "Be involved in what they are interested in..." and from Kelli Caprine, a mom of four, who said "Mean what you say... stand by that." Both of these are similar to my opinion. If parents are not involved in their children's lives, then they cant stop them from making bad choices. Also if parents change what they say and essentially lie, then their child wont believe them. This can cause their child to think that talking to their parents is not an option. The example's she uses all go back to the same thought. This helps make the effect of the text more obvious. For me, it makes me want to talk to my parents and I think that it would make parents want to have a relationship with their kids.
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Destiny, nice job on expressing your opinions and I like how you compared your relationship with your parents to what the article said. I completely agree on how you stated that if kids “get the wrong response from their parents, then they will not try to talk to them again.” Some mistakes on this article include when you stated how “she told some of the mistakes parents make, like talking too much,” in past tense, but in the sentence “lastly she talks about when parents should have the talk” the sentence is in present tense. Make sure your tense is the same throughout the passage. Furthermore, when you stated that you “could defiantly go to them” did you mean definitely? Also, when you stated that “this topic connects to that because. . .” who is “that?” In the previous sentence you talked about your Intro to Pub class but you should restate it so that it is clear as to who you are referring to. Lastly, on your sentence, “she talks about when parents should have the talk” you should add quotations to ‘the talk’ to add more emphasis. Great job on this blog and I liked the topic.
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